Dating apps have taken over the dating landscape in a big way. They offer convenience and ease and are a great way to meet new people. If you've never used dating applications before, it can be hard to know what to do or how to start. That's why we've put together this handy guide for those of you who are just getting started with dating apps!
How to Navigate:
You can swipe right on someone if you like them or swipe left if you don't. If they do the same, it's a match, and you can start chatting!
If someone doesn't want to match with you, don't take it personally; they just may not be interested in dating at this time or place. Try again another time when/where it works better for both parties involved.
What to do if someone doesn't want to match with me?
Don't worry about it--they might not be into who YOU are yet! Give yourself some time and try again later when/where things might go better than before (and vice versa). That said: if someone continues rejecting multiple attempts at making contact over several days' worth of interactions, then perhaps this isn't going anywhere.
What dating application do you choose?
Are you looking for someone who is in your age range?
Are you looking for someone with similar interests and hobbies?
Do you want to be able to meet people who live near you, or would you instead meet someone from across the country or the world?
These are all important questions when considering what dating application suits you.
How many dating applications are out there?
There are a lot of dating apps out there. Some are free, and some are paid, but they all have one thing in common: they're meant to help you find your soulmate. The best part? There's something for everyone! If you're looking for a serious relationship and have your eye on another person with the same goal, check out Match or eHarmony. If casual hookups are more your speed, Grindr might be right up your alley (or down your pants). And if neither of these options sounds like what you're looking for--maybe because you have yet to learn yourself or someone else told them what kind of partner would suit them--then OkCupid is probably where it's at!
The first thing you will want to do is think about why you are using a dating app. Are you looking for love? Or just some sex? Maybe both!
If you want to find someone who shares your interests and values, then an app like Tinder may be better for you than one like OKCupid or Match.com. If the latter is more your speed, then there are still ways for those who have no interest in meeting their soulmate through technology: many bars now have Tinder nights where singles can go out together and swipe right (or left) on each other over drinks instead of just staring at their phones all night long until they get tired enough that they go home alone--and then cry themselves to sleep over it because no one ever wants them anyway because everyone else has moved on from being single too so why won't anyone ever love me again?!
Tips for the best chances of matching:
Choose a dating app that is right for you.
Make sure the app is free and easy to use.
Make sure the app is secure, primarily if you use it to meet strangers or plan your first date.
Choose an app with a large user base so that plenty of people might be interested in meeting someone like you!
You need to make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you.
The first thing you need to do is make sure you're using a dating app that will be helpful to you. Don't just use one; try a few. You can use more than one at once, but make sure they're all geared toward what you're looking for in terms of location and age range.
If your goal is finding someone in your area or nearby cities, go with something like Tinder or Bumble (better if you want women). If your dream date is someone who lives across the country and has no interest in traveling there anytime soon, consider using Grindr or Scruff (the former being better if it's men).
We hope this article has helped you to make an informed decision about which dating app is best for you. There are so many options out there, but with some careful thought and research, we're sure you'll find one that works well for your needs. Here is a complete list from Tom's Guide.
Dating is not simple these days at any age, especially with technology; however, you can also use dating apps for pure entertainment :)
xoxo
Erin